There are controls on the handle, so it powers on and runs without your phone. The Paradise app is where the finer control lives: exact colors, brightness, lighting effects, vibration modes, and the memory slots. CONFIRM: exactly what the handle buttons do on their own, since Paradise's copy for this one only mentions app control

The arms flex, which is the whole point of the shape. Fit is the thing people most often get wrong with a rabbit, so give yourself a minute to find the angle rather than assuming it is not for you. Both arms move together, so once the position is right it stays right.

One thing worth saying plainly: it has no flared base, so it is not made for anal use. Anything going there needs a base wide enough to stay put. If that is what you are looking for, ask us and we will point you to something built for it.

No, and that is by design. Both arms run from one intensity setting and stay synchronized, so you are choosing a single rhythm that reaches two places at once rather than juggling two controls.

Yes. It is rated IPX7, which means full submersion, not just splash-resistant. Rinse it when you are done and let it dry before it goes back on the stand.

Warm water and a mild unscented soap, or a dedicated toy cleaner. Because it is fully waterproof you can rinse the whole thing rather than carefully wiping around the electronics. Pay attention to the inside of the curve, where it is easy to miss. Let it dry completely before charging or storing.

Skip boiling and the dishwasher. That kind of heat is not kind to the motor.

Water-based. Silicone lube and silicone surfaces do not get along, and over time it can leave the silicone tacky or degraded. Water-based also rinses straight off, which makes cleanup quicker.

Use more than you think you need. It is the single easiest thing that makes a first try go well.

It is a reasonable place to start, as long as you go in expecting to spend a little time on position. Start at the lowest setting and move up only when you want to.

If you have never used anything internal before, there is no rule saying you have to. The outer arm on its own is a perfectly good way to use it. There is no rush, and no right way to do this.

Paradise built it around a low-noise motor, so it runs noticeably more discreetly than most. CONFIRM: decibel rating from Paradise, if they publish one

Ultra-soft, body-safe silicone over the motor and the lighting, with a smooth finish rather than a slick one.

It uses a magnetic charging cable and comes with a stand, so it can live somewhere visible instead of buried in a drawer. On the stand it doubles as an ambient light. CONFIRM: run time per charge and full charge time

Always. Every order ships discreetly, every time. Plain outer packaging, with nothing on it about what is inside. Orders over $149 ship free. CONFIRM: how the charge appears on a bank statement

Get in touch and we will sort it out. You will not have to explain anything awkward to anyone. CONFIRM: return window and warranty terms for Paradise items sold through the store